You do not have to announce your sexual orientation to anyone, unless you feel safe and accepted. Queer and Loathing. I am not ashamed of my Orthodoxy, in fact I love my religion and the beauty of each Chant and ceremony but I feel upset at the fact that I would not be accepted by the Church.
I keep meeting homosexual men who want to become Orthodox. Also, why would God create people as homosexual when His Word explicitly speaks of only men and women ever marrying? For example in the UK, Commonwealth and US it is on the left ring finger whereas many continental Eurpoean countries use the right finger.
What I Did Wrong. I myself am not homosexual, but I am asexual, so I am not really seeing a point in sex to begin with aside from emotional connection and reproduction.